Society

I always being confused between am i bad or my Society?? where is the problem basically?? Because we normally listen it that Society is corrupt, spoiled, its creating fuss, and all we are living in a very unhygienic Society. But with all it point is this now from where we can get a good society for us? and where we have to trash the old one?

i think i have an idea i should shoot out the whole world, or its also possible that i do a nuclear blast in which the entire world get vanish, one thing is more which we can do and that's it i should poisoned the food that all the members of society swallowed and has been died. What do you think which is the best one? Ooo please calm down don't gave an evil laugh and don't scare my writing, i am saying the same thing which u have been said the society is wrong and we have to change it, and we can do it only with the removal of the old one.

Blaming Society is very easy for us so we are doing this job in an excellent way, but the exception of this is very difficult if i ask to you that where is society? What is Society? Where i have to go if i wanna have a meeting with Society? I am damn sure no one will be able to give me the address of this so called Society, because if we seriously put a sight in our surrounding we will be able to recognise that there is not any kind of Society, and this thing has no meaning. when people together at a place make crowd and meet on another then a Society appears, in short we are the people who are Society, and we are responsible for it, its totally depends on our behaviour and living, we have the authority of moulding Society in a good or bad mould, Society has no legs, eyes, ear, tongue.

Which we speak, see, hear that becomes Society's behaviour. Simple words are in which we behave exactly in that behaviour Society react. So if someone from us really want to do anything first of all that one has to be examine the his or her inner under the quote that ' CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME'.

Pointing the finger at front is really easy task but when we have to point it at u it takes courage and understanding. Society is all right problem is found in the members of the society. I don't know how many from you came to recognise but i have done, question is solved, confusion is no more, I AM BAD OR SOCIETY IS BECOMING SPOILED DUE TO ME.

Father's day

 If we talk about spat and clear definition Father is a term which we often use for a guardian, a man who earn money, starts a family, create a generation, feed them, love them, gives them brought up and after all these things only demands for respect and love from their family. A man who gives us a shelter who saves us from heat and roughness of the society by bearing all these things on his back and provides us softness of the life.

A member who is a source of our presence in this world, who taught us how to speak or walk, who hold our finger whenever we are gonna hurt with any hurdle, who cared about our good food, good school, and ease in life when we were young, a man who always kiss on our foreheads when we were sleeping and he came from office late night but with his little act all his tiredness gone in seconds, mothers care about us because she is always stay at home with us but Fathers who have very less conversation with us but still he knows each and every thing about our studies, time table, and others activities.

Earning money in these days when everyone is horrify by the starving of their child a big challenge which our Fathers facing. Father a person of our homes who wake up early in the morning by refusing the warm beds in winter as like cold rooms in summers and go on jobs when we are sleeping on our beds enjoying with the coldness and hotness of the opposite seasons, working there whole day and listen to the bosses without caring the lunch time, at that time we are at homes and mother entertaining us with delicious meals, and when the off time of job comes they start a journey towards home by ignoring the cruel weather which is throwing heat and cold on their tiered bodies.

Do we ever think about it? do we ever try to feel this rough routine which are Fathers spending for giving us comfort? No we don't think or even feel about this, we can only understand when we were on the seat of his, when we were face all these things on our bodies. at that time we will realise the toughness of the life from which our Fathers save us and when we will struggle for this comfort for our generation.

Before that time we will exactly sleep, eat, enjoy, and spend money on rubbish things for the sake to satisfy our materialistic desires, but Alas! when we came to know we don't have time to understand…….

Depression

We are under a lot of Tensions in our daily routine, which are increasing day by day. And these Tensions are great in numbers as much that we can easily count them on finger tips without taking breath for example money, education, competition, unemployment, etc.

All above mentioned reasons really matters because in our lives all these things can’t be ignored, we all have planning’s about life style and to fulfill these planning’s we have to struggle beyond the boundaries. Money is a basic brick for fine living today, someone who want to study really needs money for dues of well-known institute and after it the survival at that place has another issue because without money we have to scarify the good education system which will create problems in future life and will put barriers in the way of competition. So the tension of how to earn money? Start creating web of Tension.

Competition is an out source energy, I am pointing this out as outsource energy in a sense that we take inspiration from other’s and start a competition without invitation and then race began, it raises our confidence and push us on the track with the sense of doing something better than others, this energy which we gain after observing other’s achievements bring us at the way of success, because as a human being it’s in our nature that after making an effort we feels tiredness and want to take a while for rest, in that duration devil enforce us to taste the sweetness of not doing something and we becomes lazy, but under the pressure of competition we don’t let him do whatever he trying. All the time thinking about new tricks to win the competition increases pressure in mind and unconsciously we take Tension.

Unemployment is a serious problem which we are facing, population is increasing badly and opportunities are getting blur from the scene. Here the point is this when we are investing money for our bright future we are not thinking about a single penny, but when the result came in the shape of unemployment each and every thing pinches in mind and we do start counting that when and where we spent how much for achieving this goal and a process of plus, minus or multiplication starts, or when the answer came a trance of Tension covers our mind with its clouds.

All these things would be easy and Tensionless if we let Him do His job who said” just do your effort and left the result on me”. Because tension don’t exist in world it’s just its just an emotion and an ugly face of devil who is trying to put wrong thinking about fate in our minds for that we do complain to God. Our job is only to try our best, we are not able to see that which thing is better for us, if we start trusting God that whatever we are trying to gain if we don’t get it means its not good for ourselves and the reward of this effort will come to us in another shape one day, Tension again will never exist able thing for you……

Clothes

 

Oh no here is not any fashion show is going to be held, I am just going to put a lime light on the live ramp walk which is today very common in our surroundings and is organized by common people in common places. Each and every girl or boy wearing strange kind of stuff with tags of stupid kind of brands under some well-known expensive designers, the designers who gone crazy in the race of creating something different, and trying all the experiments for sake of producing something new to satisfy their selves and their mental insects that they are doing struggle for developing their profession better. But I will never say that the fault is from the side of designers, one who has chosen a field and done study or have experience in that has no fault because by living in your field and making creativity and development in the result of experiments is not a bad or strange thing. That one person has to do it for the improvement of the profession, and when designers do anything new they hire models and advertise those failed or approved designs which came under experiments. Girls and boys who take part in this for introducing new arrivals are called models and those models appear on a ramp to show the collections of some designs. But the shocking point is that those models being paid for show- casing the stuff but the Girls and boys who in daily lives wear collections and mentioning tags.. WHO THEY ARE????

Are they models??

If they are then why they are not being paid by designers as models on ramp, instead they pay designer to show-case their designs, they are spending money and purchasing .After that comes on live ramp and telling which one designer they are wearing. In the light of above statement same question raised again WHO THEY ARE????

Are they crazy??

If they are crazy then how a crazy one knows that he or she has to become fashionable, different and up to date, and how this thing appears in their minds that they have to take part in this race and has to show the others that they are going to win? Because the entire crazy category which I have seen in my life they seriously are in dirty clothes, bare footed, have senses but no fashion and competition sense. So here is again the above question dancing in front me WHO THEY ARE????

Are they in Inferiority Complex???

Now at this point I can’t say something except this physical appearance matters but for a while but when u have to put another sight on the opposite standing one then all the charm of appearance and brand finished except your behavior, way of talking, knowledge, inner and addressing or all these things have no brands……

innovation

We are facing a major clash of behaviors now a days, where we think that people are so odd because they are going in weird directions. Sometimes this situation sounds like a global problem in which things began so complicated, technical, and up to date where people are so busy and in this tension their thoughts are becoming different like another planet just as the chapter which we read in intermediate about Mars planet.

So whatever I concluded is this the disease which we are facing is due to the germs of Aspects.

Aspect is a very useful and useless thing at the same time, because where Aspects differs innovations and inventions came, and unfortunately when Aspects matches fights and clashes began. And when these things happen here one more Aspect developed that what’s important 1; go further for innovation or 2; stay at the same place for fight.

Here I have one more example black and white two totally opposite colors with extreme opposite theories are existing in our daily life, no one statement about these colors is as authentic that we can get any kind of reference from any kind of religious book, because these theories are developed by common people just like us not from God. Exactly like this if there is dark and someone say that its night so that one is right, but at the same time if another person came and say no its not night, it’s just the absence of sun so at the spot that one person is right too. Only they are thinking the same thing in different Aspects.

So the germs of this disease of Aspects can be anti-dotted with this simple logic that no one is from Mars and no one is weird, it’s all about the game of God’s almighty’ who can create unlimited human beings with different features and characteristics exactly like this He created different ways of Aspects for each person. Every one thinking in his own direction gifted by his Almighty God…

Reality

 You are a Daughter and you have a Daughter in both cases you have a strong relationship with a term called ‘Respect’. We often learned that women are the beauty of world, but sorry to say I am not talking about the physical beauty, women are the beauty due to her delicate behavior and respectful gender or soul. Women in all her relations always give u happiness, comfort and discipline in your life.

But when we talk about Daughters all other colors of relations lost their intensities in front of this bright relation. There was a time when Daughters were born had buried for reason considering them dangerous for respects, but then with the passage of time thoughts changed although I should say thoughts modernized and we stop burying Daughters and start burying their freedom, because we found it safe and secure for ourselves, in this way no one can claim us brutal and worse.

WHO CARES ABOUT THE MURDER OF CHOICE AND FREEDOM?

Daughters are the strange victim of our society who they don’t say, don’t claim, don’t argue, don’t complain, you can say the nick name of daughters are DON’T. if you have a Daughter you can do whatever you want and trust me it’s my guarantee  she will never say anything in front of you and one thing more don’t worry she will never say anything behind you too. Because she don’t know how to say.

No doubt in all relations women are used to be sacrifice and for compromise and in all cases it’s not totally about injustice from men, there is one more interesting thing about Daughters that they choose this injustice for their selves with their own choice. They love it when their beloved sacrifice their personalities ant they thought this demand of sacrifice a fortune. And this is why we gave them a brought up that they are useless and can only be fruitful in this way, so they are just trying to prove their selves fruitful by giving the necks of their freedom under knives of men rules.

If u are a Daughter for God sake, if u are useless why God sent you on earth???  so stop giving sacrifice because in this way you can’t be respectful, and if you have a Daughter its respectfully stated that whatever you are burying a Daughter or a Daughter’s freedom it will never help you for making yourself respectful………

                                         

Slave of desires

                                   

May be on my this statement u jump out from your seats with anger that what's the rubbish is this.. but this is reality that we all are slaves of our desires, we are not ruling Desires but instead of this Desires are ruling us, without feeling the difference of good or bad we are just going through the situation with a stubborn thinking that we have to do it in any case..

We are on a stage where we prefers for giving answers of someone's questions neither for listening others. because the reason is this we have changed and molded the things and thoughts according to our likes and dislikes nor in the light of right or wrong.. After all of this the first question which would be raised in minds can be what is Desire?? honestly speaking i don't know, just like a null student who don't know the actuall formula of writing a table except this whatever table you are writing just add a figure of that digit in current one and get a further one.. Exactly like that one student i just know a thing that if i am doing a thing without thinking that in sake of achieving this what should i or what i should not this is Desire..

If someone said to you that you can't slap over your own face and in this reaction you just slaps over your face, it directly and indirectly shows that you are more interested to prove that person wrong instead of thinking that why you slapped on your face.. Your Desire was not to keep yourself safe from a slap but your Desire was to prove other one wrong..

So, my point is this why we are slapping over our faces?? I mean why we are running behind Desires?? what ever going on is according God's Desire which is more authentic and powerful, then why we are trying to prove our selves right.. we came in this world first then Desires came so we should keep them behind not in front of us……

Pointing out the gravity of this failing, the chapter entitled Al-Jathiyah (Kneeling) of the Quran admonishes us on this subject in alarming terms: "Consider the one who has taken his own desire as a deity, whom God allows to stray in the face of knowledge, sealing his ears and heart and covering his eyes — who can guide such a person after God (has abandoned him)? Will you not take heed?" (45:23)